Overcoming Fear And How To Make A Decision About Your Life

By having decided that you don’t like the way you feel, what could be easier than telling yourself this: “And so I hope I’ve been wrong.” It is easier to have a happy day if you prevent unhappiness from entering at all. Now, let’s consider again the very first of the decisions that are offered here.

Now you can ask a question that makes sense, and so the answer will make sense. Nor will you fight against it.

It will reinforce the idea of your inner Advisor in the world when you offer the type of day you want to the world. Think about this, as well as the following question, before you move on in this book, and please keep it in the back of your mind:

Whose world is this for the day you asked for?

You are not being coerced, but merely hope to get a thing you want. Now you can say in perfect honesty: “I want another way to look at this.”

This is about beginning a happy day with the determination not to make decisions by yourself. Still, you can’t make decisions by yourself.

This works against the sense of opposition within yourself and reminds you that help is not being thrust upon you, but it is something you need because you don’t like the way you feel. This small admission allowing for help will let you go ahead a few more steps.

This is no different than asking for a little push.

It is this agreement that makes all things happen. Decisions that are caused by you and your Advisor within will effect the results you want for yourself, and for the world.

Now you have changed your mind about the day and have remembered what you really want. Its purpose is no longer hidden by the ego-based belief that you want it for the ego-based goal of being right, when you are in error. Now you know how to be ready, but not in conflict, when you ask for what you want.

Whatever you decide–however you decide things–you will not be making these decisions by yourself.

If you make your decision with what you have always idolized, the ego, it will help you to make concrete decisions that turn into confusion. Don’t even ask a question about your day if you are unwilling to receive because of the fear you have of an answer.

You can begin to change your mind with this: “At least I can decide I don’t like what I feel now.” This much is obvious and paves the way for the next easy step.

If you do not, your idol, the ego, who is always in fear of something, will continue as it always has. There is no freedom in a decision you and your idol make. Because it’s a decision that is always uncertain.

The final step is to acknowledge a lack of opposition.

You are informing your open mind that you are willing to be shown by saying “Perhaps there is another way to look at this. What can I lose by asking?”

You may have trouble realizing it if your fears are gaining momentum due to your decision-making. Because you have decided by yourself on the ideas that promise you a happy day, this is so.

The decision can be undone by simple methods that you can accept.

To overcoming fear and having the world you want